Today “Dussehra”……….means
celebrating victory over evil .A day to greet all family and friends for their
good fate and clear all the differences…….. if any…….this is what is I had
learnt since childhood………
Sometimes I feel there is nothing called misunderstanding or differences one creating it it’s all about situation that
make this happen it’s all about accepting people and situation
"Accepting People
and Situations" the title even though looks very simple to understand it is
equally important to comprehend and implement. Every human being on this planet
is majorly confronted with two things in his entire lifetime one is
"People" and other are the "Situations". When we are born,
the first thing we do is respire, which happens in a particular situation with
someone around. Right from the start till we die these two things remain with
us. Thus during this gap of birth and death, how we handle these two things is
extremely important.
Everyone is gifted with unique abilities and qualities. We are here because of our uniqueness, however, people have lost their true self in the race of being someone else. They try and imitate somebody they admire or they try to change themselves for making someone happy, however in this process they lose their own versatility. We all have some or the other unique trait, which someone else might not have. I feel the essence of life lies in maintaining our originality and helping others to develope something new in them by focussing on their fundamental strengths and qualities this is what gives me atleast a great amount of self confidence and satisfaction.
Sometimes I feel People and Situations go hand in hand, people are responsible for creating situations. These situations in turn change the person who created them. This is a strange but really a true logic which is practical and inevitable. It is therefore very important to be aware of our actions, which determine the situations and the behaviour of the people present in that scenario.. The best way to avoid differences and misunderstanding is to accept the people the way they are. When we accept someone who is altogether different from us, we offer them their space of freedom and comfort. This act of our's not only is a catalyst for making the other person to feel at ease but also creates a favorable situation which is beneficial to everyone around. However, today people want their friends, spouse, children, etc. to behave differently different from the way they are in their true being. This not only makes the later feel frustrated but in the long run it also affects the actual meaning of the relation.
It is therefore important to value and respect the originality and uniqueness which one carries with themselves. Doing this will not only make the situations more easy but it will also help us to gain a great sense of inner peace and satisfaction
Everyone is gifted with unique abilities and qualities. We are here because of our uniqueness, however, people have lost their true self in the race of being someone else. They try and imitate somebody they admire or they try to change themselves for making someone happy, however in this process they lose their own versatility. We all have some or the other unique trait, which someone else might not have. I feel the essence of life lies in maintaining our originality and helping others to develope something new in them by focussing on their fundamental strengths and qualities this is what gives me atleast a great amount of self confidence and satisfaction.
Sometimes I feel People and Situations go hand in hand, people are responsible for creating situations. These situations in turn change the person who created them. This is a strange but really a true logic which is practical and inevitable. It is therefore very important to be aware of our actions, which determine the situations and the behaviour of the people present in that scenario.. The best way to avoid differences and misunderstanding is to accept the people the way they are. When we accept someone who is altogether different from us, we offer them their space of freedom and comfort. This act of our's not only is a catalyst for making the other person to feel at ease but also creates a favorable situation which is beneficial to everyone around. However, today people want their friends, spouse, children, etc. to behave differently different from the way they are in their true being. This not only makes the later feel frustrated but in the long run it also affects the actual meaning of the relation.
It is therefore important to value and respect the originality and uniqueness which one carries with themselves. Doing this will not only make the situations more easy but it will also help us to gain a great sense of inner peace and satisfaction
let's all try to implement this and live happily in this" peice of peace"
HAPPY DUSSEHRA TO ALL...........................
HAPPY DUSSEHRA TO ALL...........................
